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7. Do you have any health issues? - 12.2.2009
7. Do you have any health issues?
Learning the overall health history of your new mate, including
his family's medical history, is essential if you're
considering a long-term relationship, or if
are involved. Given the health issues in the Black community,
genetic compatibility may help determine if this is the
right person for you. Ask your new partner about his family's
history of ...
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6. Are you interested in a commitment? - 12.2.2009
6. Are you interested in a commitment?
If your partner is reluctant to answer this question or
wants to refocus the conversation, this person is not ready
to make a commitment. "You should understand when
you're dealing with someone who is not ready or able
to respond to you on that level, " says Dr. Durant,
who provides telephone-coaching sessions, leading women,
step-by-step, through ...
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5. What is your idea of an ideal mate? - 12.2.2009
5. What is your idea of an ideal mate?
Knowing what your potential mate finds attractive is fundamental.
"You need to know if you come close to that person's
idea of an ideal mate, " says Dr. Williams, the Detroit
lawyer and psychologist who has counseled singles and
couples for over 30 years. "When there is discord,
the person will have a tendency to gravitate toward what
they are ...
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4. Why did you break up with your ex? - 12.2.2009
4. Why did you break up with your ex?
While you don't want to spend your entire date talking
about ex-partners, there are advantages to knowing the
reasons behind your new lover's break-up, or in many
cases, divorce. "I wouldn't recommend it for
the first date, but you want to know fairly quickly if you
plan to be involved beyond the immediate, " says
Copage. "Your lover's ...
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3. Are you in debt? - 12.2.2009
3. Are you in debt?
Although it is a sensitive topic, understanding your mate's
financial habits, not necessarily how much he or she earns,
is essential to the success of a long-term relationship.
"Even in the short run, spending habits can be indicators
of character, values and personality, " says Dr.
Paris Finner-Williams, lawyer, psychologist and co-author
(along with husband, Robert ...
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2. What is your fantasy? - 12.2.2009
2. What is your fantasy?
Although there is some debate about this question (many
critics citing that it redirects efforts outside of the
relationship instead of within), others maintain its
value depending on the circumstance. "Exploring
fantasy depends on how the relationship is moving, "
says Eric V. Copage, author of SoulMates, An Illustrated
Guide to Black Love Sex and ...
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1. Do you practice safe sex? - 12.2.2009
1. Do you practice safe sex?
Whether you're having sex with your partner or not,
knowing a mate's sexual behavior is a critical component
of building a relationship. "If you are having sex
now, or plan to in the future, you need to know your partner's
sexual habits, " says Dr. Durant. "You need
to know if your mate uses condoms, and if so, if he uses them
with everyone, or just certain ...
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9 questions to ask your new lover - 12.2.2009
9 questions to ask your new lover: what you were afraid to
ask, but always wanted to know
Ebony , March, 2004 by Nikkita A. Foston
YOU wanted to ask, but you were afraid of the answers. Is
he or she the one for you? What is the wildest thing he's
ever done? How many sex partners has he had? Is he broke or
head over heels in debt? Has he ever been arrested? And more ...
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Sex Quiz????? - 12.2.2009
I just finished taking the new sex quiz on the home page and
found out...
ABSOLUTLEY NOTHING!
All it did was tell me that 2% of members want group sex more
than me, 69% want oral sex than I do, and hole lot of other
useless information?
So I waisted 2minutes of time that I could have been doing
something constructive, or possibly learning something,
to find out how much ...
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69 - 12.2.2009
Do you all love sixty nine as much as I do. I think its so hot
when a girl's pussy is right in my face, and i can spread
her open and stick my tongue inside her, while she sucks
my cock.
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Black and White Pt. 3 - 12.2.2009
This is for my women. Know it is a known fact that a must men
don't care for age or how someone look. So, why not the
women. Look are important but what if he make you laugh,
or what if he peek your interest with the things he says.
Does age and looks matter when some message you?
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Black and White Pt. 2 - 12.2.2009
I've been on here for awhile.. ok a long time so why is
it that it is so hard to find someone that is honest about
what they want. I know if a woman told me that all she want
is a good time and get F*ck out, then I would care. Let me know
up front so I don't catch feelings.
Why don't men and women be honest about what they want?
on here?
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White and Black - 12.2.2009
It might be just me but why is it that people judge other by
there skin color. I mean I love white women just as much as
black women. So, why do we judge?
Why is it ok for Black woman to date/marry a White man and
it ok, but when a BLACK MAN date/marry a white woman it like
the end of the world?
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Silver Members - 12.2.2009
Have the access ponits for Silver Members changed as of
today. I can no longer view photos on listings nor the Videos.
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photos on the site - 12.2.2009
it is true that a lot of members including me do not post photos.
there are many reasons for this. some may feel they are not
attractive. some are married and do not want friends or
others to find them on the site and some are high profile
enough and may live in a small town that they do not want everyone
to know their business. the fact that someone does not post
a picture does not speak ...
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WHY VAGINAL PICTURES? - 12.2.2009
Why do so many women include a picture of their vagina in
their profile? Are they proud of it or do they want to prove
something? I know--a lot of men show their penis but men
have nothing else to show--women have beauty and breasts.
what do you think? Sexist--maybe. just love women.
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what is too old??? - 12.2.2009
what is the cut-off date for sex??? I get a lot of e-mails
from women both young an old then they give me this your older
than what Im looking for crap, ,hell they e-mailed me...so
tell me what is the age??? at least I put my REAL AGE in my profile
ooh yeal thats me in the pic. too...
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My pics - 12.2.2009
Hi
As i posted in another question, I cant use face pics because
of my work. So what do you guys think of the pics ive put up.
I dont want to be to full on but at the same time i dont want
to be boring.
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Hall of Shame? - 12.2.2009
Hall of Shame? Has our American past time, baseball, has been reduced
to steroid use? I think it is sad that the players that “confess”
to using steroids are the heroes’, like A Rod, oppose to
those that lie about their use of the “performance enhancing”
drug. Steroid users such as Barry Bonds have broken all
time records and have tainted the game forever ...
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Posting articles - 11.2.2009
Are there any rules regarding length or content when submitting
an article in the Erotic Stories section? I haven't
found any information about this in the help file and I'd
like to give it a try. Any story writing advice is welcome as well.
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Eztendz Sucks! - 11.2.2009
Extendz Sucks! Extendz, ok you fooled millions of men that had hopes for
a “he man” image with the women but you proved to be total
bullshit. Men’s shattered hopes and dreams of an oversized
“manhood” , that would drill forth the vagina’s of the world
with assertiveness and overwhelming self esteem, were
all manipulated by your false media info ...
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Cam, Cam, Can U Do The Cam, Cam? - 11.2.2009
Here's sum funny little questions and things I've
been wondering about for while:
-What do YOU do when YOU'RE on cam?
-What do you like OTHERS to do on THIER cam?
-Have you ever PAID for a cam show?
-If so, what was like it?
-What did he or she do?
-Do you have cam fantasies?
-Do you have people act them out for you? ...
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Kinbaku or Shibari in the USA - 11.2.2009
I really love Japanese style rope bondage called Kinbaku
or Shibari. There are some Doms and websites in the US that
use these techniques . . . I do not see any places on this website
for information on learning these exotic "arts"
. . .
Am I missing something?
Can someone direct me to the right place on Transen Kontakte? or can someone
help me compile the info ourselves to teach people ...
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most;y for the women. - 11.2.2009
how do you feel about having a bi boyfriend? and how would
you feel about him kissing another guy at a party?
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Changes to the New Format - 11.2.2009
Hey guys - just wanted to share some good news this morning regarding the new site design.
Everyone up and down the chain of command over here has read your feedback. We hear you, we agree with you, and we are going to make some changes. You've probably already seen some changes this morning. Here's what we are changing:
* Move up the profile up from the bottom of the page
* We ...
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Inactive Profiles - 11.2.2009
Hi,
How do you make your profile inactive without deleting
it?
Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks
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Guy uses ED drugs? - 10.2.2009
How can a I find out whether the man is using ED drugs? ED drugs like Viagra and Cialis are common now-a-days.
Is it possible for a me to find out whether my man uses these
drugs during sex? It is not respectful to ask a man whether
he uses one. In other words, can a person use these drugs without the
knowledge of his female partner?
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Valentine's Grinch or just Jealous? - 10.2.2009
I made the mistake of saying in front of certain family members
that I think that Valentine's Day was over rated and
had been taken over by the jewlery industry. You'd
thought the world was coming to an end. She said I was jealous
because I did not have anybody "special" in
my life and that's why I said that. I've had that
opinion for a while now, I don't wear a lot of jewlery
and do not like ...
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Would you like a male that is convienently locate? - 10.2.2009
Hello friends. She's shy? I'm good with that,
very relaxed, clean , discreet. I need mutual discretion
as well. Her body is fantastic. I love MFM play. Hope to connect
someday.
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Anyone else prefer just a good blowjob to deep throat? - 10.2.2009
I recently had a great blowjob from a lovely lady and found
that when she slowed down to take it down her throat that
much of the sensation went away.
I applaud her efforts but just liked the stright sucking
and in and out more.
I'd like to know how others feel about it.
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