I just want to be upfront about my situation. A lot of people have this condition and I'm am sure there are many on here that do as well but they wait to tell. I am just coming out with it. I am sure there are girls on here who have it, after all, we all love sex and that's how you get it. If you have herpes, I really hope you'll say hello to me. I want to have a sexual experience, and maybe more, with someone who has HSV already so that I can not have to worry about hurting someone and I want to possibly have sex without a condom for the first time in a long time. I certainly will use one at first, but I want the potential to be there. To be honest, I have taken drugs for it in the past and haven't had any problems or outbreaks in over 2 years and have not "shared" it. So I'm not even exclusively staying in the HSV population, but again, I just want to be up front about it. I'm a good looking and educated guy who knows I'm not in this situation by myself. If you have it, say hi.