I'm a strange one! Well, ... that's how I feel sometimes. I consider myself a straight guy and always have. I see a woman in her late twenties or older and a small part of my mind wonders what she would be like in bed (without taking action or verbalizing the thought). I would venture a guess a lot of men feel this way. After I say this, I think most would view me differently. First, let me say I have no desire to be a woman, transgender or gay. I've never had a relationship or sexual encounter that was not with a woman, nor do I want too. So here is where people change their opinion of me. At 53 (54ish) I still have a strong sex drive and yet wish I did not. Yes, I do have my reasons and I've extensively researched side effects. Since this is not considered normal 'man' thinking here in the States there is little I can do. That's an extremely taboo subject for men and women. If I go to a Doctor and tell him or her to end my sex drive, I will get refered to a shrink, end of medical discussion and beginning of "therapy". So what is so wrong with a straight man saying that he wants this? Anyone? You are likely wondering 'why am I here' ... Right? Well, I DO still have my sex drive!

Der ideale Mensch für mich 1) Openminded
2) Non-Judgemental
3) Willing to take time to understand someone else's point of view (a listener)
4) Willing to try new to you experiences (curious)
5) Not easily offended