well firstly u have to know one thing relationships r not something u make they r something that happens because it is ment to and it is mutuial and it is something u have to work at and something that evolves u cant rely on them and they do break down and do hurt when they do but with hurt comes experience life is about experience there is no rules on relationships they can be different things to different peple all u can hope for is u r a good per and u find a good per. Learn to live with yourself before you g