For me a perfect date is anything as long as it ends back at my place with our clothes off. I've reached the point where I'm free to do what I want, when I want, with who I want. It feels good. When I go out, it's about finding something new to do, and enjoying it. I like my partners to be aggressive and take-charge. If you contact me bear in mind that I'm just looking for a fuck buddy, not a soulmate. I look forward to seeing where this leads us. I'm not changing my life, but I want to explore a few new options and see how it works out.