I am happily married but my wife can't or won't do the things I like. I'm a bottom, but have never topped a guy and don't know if I will like it yet. I don't really care for blowjobs or kissy touchy shit from guys, just fucking. I love freaky women as well. My wife won't join in any games, and wants to remain oblivious. We must be safe, so that means condoms. I can host, but mainly during certain days based on her schedule. Fridays and Saturday mornings 9am work the best for me. Don't come at me without taking a shower. I will be very clean, because no one wants a mess. I'm 6' 215lbs. I don't mind chubby, but I don't want grossly obese.