I do not check IM's as I get swamped with them. I usually only respond to people who are reaably close to my location, so if you live probably more that 50-100 miles away I likely won't respond to you. I'm about meeting people not having a cyber relationship. I am a busy professional woman who travels all over Wisconsin for work, usually in the northern part of the state. I don't have time for a relationship right now, because my career comes first. I do have a very active libido, which I need to satisfy. I am very sexual and know what I want. Ideally I am looking for a guy who isn't going to get attached and just wants to have fun. I like a guy that is open minded. I have a thing for hot frat boy types, but I need a well hung guy who can satisfy me. I am open to all types of men, but don't be offended if Im not interested. I know what I want. My fantasy is to be with two bi men, the thought of that turns me on soooo much, so bi guys step to the front of the line!! I have also wanted to be with a black man, so I would like to explore that too. I have had problems with the IM program on here, often times it does not work. If you try to page me with no response either, I am not interested, not at my computer or it doesn't work for you for some strange rea. With that in mind do send repeated pages calling me a bitch for not responding to you - I might not be able to. Your best bet is to send me a message with a photo attached and let me know what you are into.